The Power of Doing Things Out of Love: Lessons from KB’s Dangerous Jesus
Recently, I was listening to the audiobook Dangerous Jesus by KB, and one particular section really stood out to me. He emphasized the importance of doing things out of love. This was such a powerful reminder of how easy it is to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, constantly checking things off a to-do list without remembering the real purpose behind our actions.
When we shift our mindset to doing things out of love, it changes everything. Instead of simply going through the motions — working to make money, fulfilling obligations because others expect us to — we begin to find joy and meaning in our tasks. This perspective allows us to approach life with more passion, purpose, and fulfillment.
A Shift in Perspective
KB’s message resonated deeply with me because it reminded me that our mindset affects everything we do. If we approach our work, relationships, and daily activities with love, we not only enjoy them more but also perform them with greater excellence. This shift leads to a life where we are no longer driven by worldly obligation but by a genuine desire to glorify God through our actions.
One analogy from the book stuck with me. KB referenced another author who described people as broken pieces of glass — flawed and imperfect. When broken glass comes into contact with other broken glass, it cuts. Similarly, in life, we often hurt one another, whether intentionally or not. If we allow these “cuts” to dictate our mindset, we can become bitter, resentful, and defensive. But if we remember that we are all broken and in need of grace, it allows us to respond to others with love and understanding rather than anger and resentment.
Responding to Hurt with Love
KB shared a story from his youth about a guy who frequently stirred up trouble, picking fights and pushing people’s buttons. This person once tried to get under KB’s skin, but instead of reacting with frustration or aggression, KB responded with love. He offered kindness, understanding, and even prayers for the guy. Eventually, this response broke through, and the person apologized.
This story illustrates the power of love to overcome negativity. If KB had responded in anger, it likely would have escalated the situation. But by choosing love, he defused it entirely. This is a lesson we can all take to heart — when faced with negativity, we have a choice in how we respond.
Living with Love and Forgiveness
When we truly internalize this mindset, it transforms our interactions with others. Whether it’s a friend, a stranger, or even a significant other, there will be times when we feel wronged. If we react purely from emotion, we risk becoming bitter and resentful. But when we remember that we, too, have hurt others at some point — whether through words or actions — we can extend grace more easily.
Forgiveness is not just for the benefit of others; it frees us as well. Holding onto resentment only weighs us down. Instead, praying for those who have hurt us and asking God for peace allows us to move forward with love in our hearts.
Love Overcomes Hate
KB’s book challenges us to make our love so strong that it overcomes hate rather than allowing hate to overcome love. This requires maturity, self-awareness, and a willingness to see others through God’s eyes. No, this doesn’t mean being a doormat or tolerating toxic behavior, but it does mean choosing love and understanding whenever possible.
By embodying this perspective in our daily lives, we can live with more joy, peace, and fulfillment. Instead of just existing, we begin to truly thrive — loving others as God loves us and making a meaningful impact in the world around us.
I hope this message resonates with you as much as it did with me. Let me know your thoughts — have you read or listened to Dangerous Jesus? How has the concept of doing things out of love impacted your life?
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